Changing Lives, One Spank At A Time - On Disability & Kink With Joshua And Mary
Joshua is a 41 year old professional dominant, who is into photography, martial arts and philosophy. Mary is 31 year old process manager, who enjoys singing, disability advocacy and all things Halloween.
We talk about the intersection between kink/BDSM with disability, the ways play can be adapted and tweaked to best suit different abilities and needs, the issues around stigma and fetishizing disability, green and redflags.
We also dive deep into professional domination, how to ensure consent, the importance of friendships before play, integrity, and vulnerability.
The total consent acronym discussed:
M: Marks
I: Injuries and illnesses
T: Triggers, turnoffs, tone, time
P: Proximity
I: Interaction and intensity
S: Safewords
A: Anything else
You can find Joshua here: masterjoshua.com, kinkcollective.net, and Mary here: @kinkabilities.
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